Hi there!
If you don't know the email address of the parent account or the member, you can try finding their email address by logging in to your account here: https://outlook.live.com/
Once you are on this Outlook webmail page, click on the "Your family" tab below the inbox. Then click the "Your family" again. Then click on the name of the member to view the email address so you'll know who owns the parent account.
I have attached a screenshot for reference. Though it is on English language but that should be the one you need to click.