Hello KristiB,
I’m sorry this has taken so much effort, especially with each attempt requiring a trip to your mother’s apartment.
The code you received after submitting the account recovery form may not be the code that the “I have a code” screen is asking for. Microsoft’s account recovery code is a separate, 25-digit code generated beforehand, so I wouldn’t keep entering the ACSR response there.
You mentioned trying her password. At the Windows sign-in screen, when you select Sign-in options > Password, what happens: is the password rejected, is that option missing, or does it take you to the old landline verification? Also, what is the exact wording on the screen that says “I have a code”?
Please don’t post any password, code, phone number, or account details here. Those two screen results should help us identify the right next step without risking a reset of the PC.