A cloud-based task management app from Microsoft that helps users organize and manage daily tasks across devices.
Hello SelAromDotNet,
Thank you for reaching out in Microsoft Q&A forum
I understand how frustrating it is that you and your wife can’t share a simple To Do list even after trying multiple devices, browsers, and reinstalling the app.
Sometimes a personal account can silently become a connected work/school account (for example after using Outlook.com with a domain or using Azure/Teams in the past). Please ask both of you to visit this page: https://account.microsoft.com/profile. If you see anything mentioning Work or school account, Azure, or Entra ID, that can block To Do sharing.
Since sharing To Do lists relies on Microsoft consumer identity services, please check: https://family.microsoft.com/. If:
- either of you appears twice
- one account shows “pending”
- or you are not in the same family group
To Do sharing can fail exactly as you described. If so, remove the family group and re‑add it.
Another solution for you to try is reset To Do sharing permissions: Microsoft To Do uses the Tasks service under Outlook.com. Please try:
- Go to https://outlook.live.com/tasks/
- Delete the problematic shared list from there
- Sign out on all devices then wait 2–3 minutes
- Create a brand‑new list from this webpage
- Share it again
This forces Outlook’s task service to re-register the list correctly.
Let me know how it goes.
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