Please note that this is NB-NO forum, all post should be in Norwegian, however, I will still use English for your case today.
Hi B G
Thank you for your thoughtful message and for providing the background behind your actions. It is clear that your intentions came from concern for your daughter and a genuine desire to understand a situation that was outside your usual area of expertise.
It's commendable that you recognized the misunderstanding, adjusted your approach, and stopped the activity once you learned it could be problematic. We all start somewhere when learning new technical subjects, and mistakes can happen during that process.
Most importantly, your post makes it clear that there was no malicious intent. Thank you for your honesty, apology, and respectful attitude. Wishing you and your daughter all the best, and hopefully things become easier for both of you moving forward.