Hello,
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Good afternoon. I understand you are unable to disable the Windows Update pause—is that correct? If so, press Win+X -> Command Prompt (Admin) or Terminal (Admin) and paste the commands below, one by one, pressing Enter after each:
net stop wuauserv
net stop bits
net start bits
net start wuauserv
Restart your computer and check if the issue is resolved. If not, press Win+X -> Terminal (Admin) and paste the commands below, one by one, pressing Enter after each:
Set-Service -Name wuauserv -StartupType Manual
Start-Service -Name wuauserv
Set-Service -Name BITS -StartupType Automatic
Start-Service -Name BITS
Restart your computer again and let us know the result.